from Lenae - GEMS Training Manager
God>self
Then he
said to them all: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and
take up their cross daily and follow me.”
Luke 9:23
Life can be exhausting, especially for
those who can’t say “no”. They stretch themselves like rubber bands over
multiple ministry opportunities and life’s extra-curricular activities, and in
time they stretch thin and snap. Maybe you’re in a season of over commitment.
Maybe you’re in recovery and have even practiced saying, “No!” in the bathroom
mirror before stepping into the next volunteer meeting.
Whether you can identify with that kind
of breathless living or not, if we’re truly transparent we all have problems
saying no to people. And the people most difficult to say no to is . . . us!
Instead of saying no to self and all that
our sinful nature desires, we plop ourselves on the throne of our heart and use
the language of the Land of Me. I need . . . I want . . . I expect . . . I
deserve . . . It’s a mini-kingdom mentality centered on me, myself, and I. It
makes much of self and less of God.
Our Savior Jesus who left the throne room
of heaven and made Himself nothing teaches by example and words what it means
to live for His Kingdom. He said, “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny
themselves and take up their cross and follow me” (Luke 9:23).
Deny yourself. This is foreign language in a culture of
entitlement. If we’re going to say yes to God’s greatness in our lives, it’s
means saying no to self. The throne of our heart isn’t built for two. Worship
Christ, adore Christ, fix your eyes on Christ until you find pleasing Him
abundantly more life giving and beautiful than pleasing self.
Take up your cross daily. The cross is a place of suffering and
sacrifice. Jesus humbled Himself to the point of death on a cross. He
sacrificed His very life so we could have life. As His disciples, we’re called
to do the same. What needs to be sacrificed to say yes to God and no to self?
What is the primary thing that distracts you and me from a Christ-centered
life? That’s where our sacrifice needs to begin.
Follow Jesus. Even the very youngest child knows how
to play Follow the Leader. With childlike faith we need to relinquish our
control issues, surrender, and stand behind Jesus. Follow His example. Trust
His lead.
HE>i: Who or what has reigned supreme in your
life in the past hour? Pray for God’s help to say yes to Him and no to
self.
We fail to uphold His glory because
we want it for ourselves. Our default mode is self-centeredness, not
God-centeredness.
Bob Bevington